Are love and relationships just chemical reactions in the brain?
Sunday, December 25th, 2011Pro: love and relationships are “chemical reactions in the brain”, as you put it, and not planted in everyone by some intelligent creator. you just believe that – probably because you read it in a book which is nonsense in a thousand different scientific ways, and was written thousands of years ago by simple, primitive men – and it’s all well and good, but believing in something, no matter how strong, doesn’t make it true. As far as evidence goes, we were not created by an intelligent, loving creator, but exist because of a chain of coincidences, and the idea of love is merely a trick of the brain to make us reproduce, and by no means a seed by an all-loving creator.
Con: I guess we will have to agree to disagree. I feel sorry for your family, friends and girlfriend. Because now you must say to them: “I am having a chemical reaction in my brain toward you right now.” You can never say “I love you” because you would not be honest or truthful because you really don’t know what love is because love is about relationship, not about chemicals. I am sad that you have not encountered the love of God in your heart, nor have you seen the miraculous, like the formation of a baby in the womb or the formation of the eyeball, or the formation of the universe first-hand. You have bought into some scientists theories which many, many scientists today, if you choose to read widely, are realizing are incorrect and many scientists are concluding that the universe had to be created by an intelligent designer. But as I said, more importantly, I am sad that you say to your girlfriend, “I’m having a chemical reaction in my brain right now toward you.”….
Pro: suppose these chemicals are removed from both of our bodies. do you think you could still feel love because you encountered the love of god, and i couldn’t because i didn’t?
knowing for real what love is doesn’t make it less of an emotion for people who acknowledge where it comes from. i am fully aware of the reasons that make me feel the way i feel, and i learned to accept them; i can cope with them without having to invent an imaginary concept that will make me feel more comfortable with the world and my feelings. When people say “i love you”, they mean they feel the sensation of love, and they don’t think about how or why they feel it, they just do. At the end of the day, if someone feels it, it doesn’t matter where it comes from. people who are not religious simply learned to accept the truth.
I can assure you that your experience of love is the exact same sensation as everyone else’s, you just believe that it comes from somewhere else because it comforts you.
Con: I can understand your reasoning. The very fact that you have had to “accept” and “cope” with the conclusions you have reached indicate that there is something more and bigger than you behind it all. Let me ask you this question: Why couldn’t there be something or someone bigger than all of this and all of us? What do you fear about the fact that indeed there could be an intelligent designer behind it all?